5 bad habits that can destroy your relationship (Must Read)

Every relationship comes with its own share of issues, so yours can only be as perfect as you want it to be.Often times your past relationships never worked out because you had a mindset that it would never have withstood the test of time, and always refer back to your thought when ever a problem arises.
You ought to figure yourself out and know who and what you want before starting a new relationship.

Keeping these bad habits can ruin any relationship you have:


 1. Playing games:

It doesn’t mean cheating. It means you prove too hard to crack, not opening up on current situations to your partner especially when you are hurt and angry. People’s feelings change over time with these kind of bad attitude being shown towards them. Work out your issues by communicating effectively.
2. Always thinking your relationship would never last:

With this kind of mindset, you’ll always feel justified when problems come in between you and your partner. You feel they can’t be solved and do the quickest thing – call the relationship off.

3. Settling for less:

You can only get as much as you deserve. If you feel you deserve someone who doesn’t even measure up or even comes to your relationship strength, then you and that partner of yours are getting to a dead-end soon.

4. Jealousy:

Don’t date them if you can’t trust them. Jealousy is an extra baggage you don’t need in your relationship.

 5. The thought that love will always be enough:

Love is a prerequisite in any relationship but unfortunately, it doesn’t cover all.  Qualities like trust and commitment are embedded in love which means that you need a whole lot more than liking someone to keep your relationship going.

Lover Baths Herself With Acid While Trying To Burn Her Ex-boyfriend (See Photos)

Karma did its work here...A jilted girlfriend has suffered serious burn injuries after carrying out a botched acid attack on her former lover, police say.

Ung Limey, 21, from Phnom Penh, Cambodia, tried to pour acid on her boyfriend while riding on the back of his motorcycle. He was injured, but most of the acid was blown back onto her own face

To make matters worse, her ex, Leng Socheata, 23, crashed the bike shortly afterwards as a result of the pain from the burns, causing further injury to the pair.

Ung, the acid pourer, fled the scene before police arrived, and police believe she has been treated for her burns at a private hospital. Leng's family told police it was an act of revenge after they had convinced him to break off the relationship after discovering she had a history of stealing and drug related offences.

Although she's currently missing, local media has been posting photos of Ung with a bandaged face that came out on social media.

The police said: 'We have visited all of the state hospitals and there was no sign of her, and we suspect that means that she has been treated in a private hospital.'

Beyonce & Jayz Planning On Announcing Divorce Soon Due To Infidelity??

Fans expected an on-stage appearance at the Made In America Festival when it came time for Jay Z’s rap verse in Beyonce’s hit song “Drunk In Love,” but instead, the married couple did not even feign wedded bliss.

After years of suspected infidelity by the father of her three-year-old daughter Blue Ivy, Beyonce has reportedly had it with the entire phony charade. “It’s dead,” an insider told In Touch. “Bey is sick of keeping up the ruse of happiness, and she’s done.”

So done, in fact, that she has not granted a single interview in the past 18 months — or just before her sister Solange had her notorious elevator outburst in which she attacked Jay Z as Beyonce looked on stoically. “It’s like she’s on lockdown and doesn’t want to be asked about her marriage or why she and Jay haven’t had another child after Blue Ivy,” the insider shared. “But in private, she’s already told friends and family that she’s moving forward with her life. She’ll soon make a public announcement that their marriage is over.”

Rumors have swirled for years that Jay-Z has been cheating on Queen Bey with everyone from Rihanna, to Rachel Roy, to Rita Ora, who has vehemently denied having a fling with the rapper. The decision to finally divorce comes weeks after the couple allegedly had a huge blowup leading up to the MTV Video Music Awards. “Earlier this summer, Bey found some suspicious texts on Jay’s phone that led her to believe he was having a secret flirtatious communication with one of his [female] proteges,” a source told In Touch. Beyonce’s been on high alert for some time and took her new suspicions to one of Jay Z’s right hand men, who told her she needed to take that up with her husband. To Bey, that was a confirmation of her worst suspicions and fears.”

Then, In Touch reports, things came to a head when Jay Z asked Beyonce to come with him to the VMA’s as a “show of public solidarity.” Unable to conceal her disdain, she let her husband know what was on her mind. “She couldn’t figure out why Jay would want to go when they’re at a point where they can barely stand to look at each other. She made a comment about Jay only wanting to go to see Rita Ora and he laughed and twirled his finger in circles around his head, making a sign like Bey was crazy.

”Then, Beyonce reportedly blew up.

Could This Be Love?...24 Year Old Girl Weds 84 Year Old Man (Photos)

An 84-year-old Russian actor famous for more than 140 roles in Soviet and Russian films has announced he plans to start a family with his new wife who is 60 years his junior.

Legendary Russian actor Ivan Krasko married his 24-year-old fiancée Natalia Shevel, a former student of his, in a secret ceremony attended only by close friends and family yesterday in St Petersburg.

Despite criticism from many, the pair described their relationship in an interview with Russian media as a 'match made in heaven'.

They met while the father-of-six was teaching at university and Ms Shevel, one of his students, began writing him poetry which he said had made a 'huge impression' on him.

The actor, who has been married three times before, said: 'As a result of her words, I started to feel like a man in a way that I thought had long since vanished. But it was like being rebooted, and something which was missing returned.'

In the interview shortly before the ceremony the pair said they feel they cannot spend a single day apart and are living together in the actor's apartment in central Moscow.

He said he had not yet met her family, although she had been introduced to his sons. Mr Krasko added one of the first things his sons asked him was who was going to get the family's country estate, but he had assured them that nothing in his will would be changed.

When a journalist implied the marriage was simply a publicity stunt by the young woman to shortcut the usual career ladder by linking herself with a famous fiancé, Mr Krasko rejected the idea.

He said that it was a fact that she was currently unemployed but added he would not be attempting to boost her career saying: 'An actor is always best off when they work on their name and by creating their brand on their own.'

The couple said they wanted a quiet wedding with and had only invited close relatives and friends.

Mr Krasko, who will turn 85 in two weeks, added that the relationship prior to their marriage remained platonic, but he now hopes they will have a family together as they 'both wanted children'.

The grandfather-of-three said: 'Naturally she has some worries about the future, but for me this is an exciting new time in my life.'

Can You Imagine The Flimsy Reason Husband Gave For Pouring Hot Oil On His Wife?!? (Pictured)

Whatever comes over people to act in such ways still beats me. The State police command has arrested one Mr. Uchenna Okoye for pouring hot cooking oil on his wife, Njideka. Mr. Okoye, said that he came back from work on Tuesday last week and demanded his meal from his wife, who told him that she was expecting the person she sent to buy food item for her.

According to Mr. Okoye, he became furious and asked him why she should send somebody to buy food item when he had earlier warned her never to do so.It was during the scuffle that he poured hot oil on his wife.

Mr. Okoye, who regretted his action, revealed that he has brought the wife back home and promised never to repeat such act. He is currently cooling his heels at the Central Police Station in Awka.

Update: Remember The Ekiti Woman Caught Cheating On Facebook And Whatsapp? See What She Did in Court

On Wednesday, August 26, 2015,we reported about Ekiti businessman Muyiwa Owolabi, who dragged his wife, Tinuola, to an Ado Ekiti Customary Court to seek dissolution of their ten-year-old marriage over “serial adultery with several men” she met on social media platform Facebook and Whatsapp. Here is update on the divorce..Read below;

A mild drama took place at an Ado-Ekiti Customary Court on Tuesday, as a 40-year-old wife, Mrs Owolabi Tinuke burst into tears during cross-examination in the divorce suit instituted by her husband, Olumuyiwa. Tinuke pleaded with the court that she was ready to make amends wherever she might have made mistakes.

The husband, Owolabi who lives at No. 14, Fashanu Crescent, Similoluwa Ado-Ekiti, filed the divorce suit at an Ado-Ekiti Customary Court to his wife, Tinuke.

Olumuyiwa is seeking the dissolution on ground of alleged adultery by his wife, saying that he had caught his wife on several occasions with different men she met on facebook and whatsapp.

During the first hearing on Aug. 18, the respondent, Tinuke, 40 denied all the allegations levelled against her by her husband.

She said that all the men that her husband accused her of were either his family members or childhood friends, who she met some on social media.

Tinuke said that her husband was in the habit of beating her and did not provide food for the family, but paid the school fees of the children.

At the resumption of the case on Tuesday, Counsel to the petitioner, Mr B.T. Oluwole cross-examined the wife.

But instead of the wife to respond to the questions posed to her by the counsel, she burst into tears and pleaded with the court not to dissolve her marriage.

She said it was shameful seeing the home she successfully built for 11years about to hit the rock, calling on the husband to give her another chance.

After the wife had been cross-examined by the counsel due to the intervention of the President of the Court, Joseph Ogunsemi, the case was adjourned to Sept. 19 for judgment. (NAN)

ABOMINATION!!! Man finds wife naked in bed with her own dad, gets stabbed by father-in-law

A man in Oakland County was stabbed after he discovered his wife in bed with her own father. The 25-year-old victim came home to find his wife and his father-in-law lying naked in bed together.

He woke his father-in-law up, and the two got into an argument that continued outside. The older man, Henry Allen Michael of Detroit, then allegedly stabbed his son-in-law in the back with a knife and drove away in the victim’s vehicle.

The victim was taken to the hospital and treated for a non-life threatening stab wound that may have perforated his right lung.

As for the victim’s wife, she said that she did not know anything had happened until her husband woke her up. She and her father had been out drinking, and she said that she passed out when they returned home.

When she was questioned, she said that she had reason to believe she was sexually assaulted and was examined by hospital staff.

At the time of the stabbing, Michael was staying at the victim’s house after having been released from prison. He has since been arrested and is being held at the Oakland County Jail.

The investigation into this incident is still ongoing.

Angry Wife Destroys Husband's Ford For Dumping Her For a 28 Yr Old Girl (Photos)

A furious 48-year-old wife has responded fiercely after discovering that her husband of 26 years left her for a 28 year old girl who is 20 years her junior.

The scorned woman spotted her hubby's car near the apartment of the 28 yr old girl friend and decided to take revenge on the car. She bought spray paint, knives, sledge hammer and rotten egg for the mission. 

She then went to the Ford Focus, destroyed it and and wrote:

"We were married for 26 years, he left the family in favour of a 28-year-old called Veronika"

The enraged 48-year-old painted graffiti all over his Ford Focus before smashing the windows, puncturing the tyres and pelting it with eggs.

To make sure everyone knew what her cheating husband had been up to, she scrawled a note on the ruined motor's windscreen... 

..

It read: "I and my husband Aleksandr are both 48 years old.

"We were married for 26 years. He left the family in favour of a 28-year-old called Veronika.

"Meanwhile, his eldest daughter is 25 years old and the youngest is just 6 years old. He betrayed me and as you can see I am very unhappy now!"

The incident took place in city of Novosibirsk in south-central Russia's Novosibirsk Oblast region.

The woman expressed her rage clearly after spotting the car parked near the flat where Veronika lives.

FOR THE LADIES: Be Careful When He Insists on No Sex Before Marriage

It is easy to understand why a woman would activate this portion of the scripture in relation to sex before marriage and I sincerely think that it is right. But I am always concerned when a fellow man like myself gladly embraces this "Ancient Tradition on Morals" in an age where "everybody is doing everybody." 

Listen, If your Prince in shining rod, be he a Bishop or Pastor or Head of Ushers, refuses to "go into you" until after marriage, my sister, comma dey inside.
Usually, it is the women playing that lovely song of "Bed undefiled" and not men.

Even if he is so committed to the work of Jehovah, kissing someone you have promised marriage is NOT A SIN; though it can lead to breaking the vow of bed undefiled. But would it not also lead to an even greater and deeper vow of, "to love, to hold and to cherish" until "aja ocha?" 

Therefore, when your potential husband, otherwise called "Fiancé" says, "no sex before marriage," but during kissing, with your hands probing his inner spirit, if you don't notice any rising steel, it means something is not alright. 

To avoid long story, let him meet your dad and pay bride price, (God honours that one too) but warn your dad not to spend the money until you have allowed him to taste what he paid for. If he refuses to taste it, bless him and let him go and buy elsewhere.
Do not let deceit push you into adultery.
Do not let deceit push you into writing long letters of stories that touch the heart and body of volunteers like your bachelor-neighbor.
And by all means, do not let your misconception of religion bring you to curse God because of one dishonest man; actually half man for lying.
My friend, if you can't rise, call a joker!
But more importantly, to be eligible, you must first stop all these stories of "I have only dated one guy before you. You are the second man in my life" when you know that your garden was a farmland for farmers like us. And that you had served as a "community chop" for hunters.
Come to equity with clean hands.
God bless.

Written by MIU

HOW TO WIN THE HEART OF YOUR MOTHER -IN -LAW

I have a little secret for our married ladies living with their mother-inlaw , a girl named ugochi got married & went to live with her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time, ugochi found that she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law at all.
Their personalities were very different, and ugochi was angered by many of her mother-in-law's habits. In addition, she criticized ugochi constantly.

Days passed, and weeks passed. Ugochi and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting.
But what made the situation even worse was that, according to their ancient tradition in their place, ugochi had to bow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing ugochi's poor husband the great distress.


Finally, ugochi could not stand her mother-in-law's bad temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it! Ugochi went to see her father's good friend, Mr. Obinna, who sold herbs.

She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all.
Mr. Obinna thought for awhile, and finally said, "ugochi, I will help you solve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I tell you."

Ugochi said, "Yes, Mr. Obinna, I will do whatever you tell me to do."Mr. Obinna went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes with a package of herbs. He told ugochi, "You can't use a quick-acting poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people to become suspicious. Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving.

Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspects you, when she dies, you must be very careful to act very friendly towards her. "Don't argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen." Ugochi was so happy.
She thanked Mr. Obinna and hurried home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law.

Weeks went by, and months went by, and every other day, ugochi served the specially treated food to her mother-in-law. She remembered what Mr. Obinna had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper, obeyed her mother-in-law, and treated her like her own mother.

After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Ugochi had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost never got mad or upset. She hadn't had an argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with.

The mother-in-law' s attitude toward ugochi changed, and she began to love ugochi like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that ugochi was the best daughter-in- law one could ever find. Ugochi and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter.

Ugochi's husband was very happy to see what was happening. One day, ugochi came to see Mr. Obinna and asked for his help again She said, "Dear Mr. Obinna please help me to keep the poison from killing my mother-in-law. She's changed into such a nice woman, and I love her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her."

Mr. Obinna smiled and nodded his head. "Ugochi there's nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were vitamins to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind and your attitude towards her, but that has been all washed away by the love which you gave to her."

HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how they will treat you? There is a wise saying: "that The person who loves others will also be loved in return." Do have a wonderful New week in the Lord. God Bless.

Woman Gets Beaten Mercilessly For Confronting Husband's Mistress (Graphic Photo)

Can you imagine!

Just read what the woman has to say about the incident for yourself and then we want to hear your thoughts on it.

My husband did this to me cause of a married woman...I have beaten blue black by my husband.. He used belt, slippers, iron name it.. He tied me to the bed and was boiling hot water to pour on me before we had a guest .. It was the man that saved my life ... His reason for doing this to me was because I fought the woman he was sleeping with, a married woman with 4 kids for that matter .... Please he has been begging me to forgive him.. Please should I go back to the marriage or divorce him.What's your verdict?

Read: Shocking New Revelations Made About Emeka Ike’s Divorce

Actor, Emeka Ike whose troubled home has been in the news of recent took a new turn as new revelations where made.

The matter is in court, and he is accusing Rev Chris Okotie of being behind his wife in the crisis, by hiring the services of a Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN), for the purpose of destroying his home. “I have been saying, ‘no comments’ because I have taken time to see what could be saved about the marriage. Before now, I have maintained silence because I have to save the image and the future of my children. The problem of a divorce is not the pleasure of the man alone, it is also not the convenience of the woman alone, it is more of the children. “I came from a home where my father and my mother lived together, and he never for one day beat her. I don’t want my children to be embarrassed, so I kept mute for over two years now. So, when people ask, I say nothing is happening; accepting everything to make somebody reasonable.

“You begin to ask questions, what is happening, and who is really interested in getting away with something evil in a decent society? I have not been doing anything illegal or illicit. The only issue has always been what I stand for; I am a firm man. I am a principled man. I build my life on the basis of integrity. So, when I say, ‘no’ people tend to say I’m stubborn. But nobody can say Emeka Ike threw somebody’s cup of garri away. “For this matter, the court has justified my position by giving me judgment for the 13 prayers I made. It shows that I know what I was doing, I was acting on behalf of the system or the society and the court feels my position and said, ‘yes’, this is what it should be like. And when you see the judgment, you will say, ‘yes this is what it should be like.’

“Nobody should take advantage of that and put wrong information about me that I am beating my wife. What about my image? I worked for it all my life. Who is issuing the cheques, who is bringing out the money that is making this thing national news, who is that man putting money behind the press men? “I sit in my house and I watch a television programme, where one presenter that should have known that the ethics of journalism is to be professional enough to call the second party did not even look at my side. The presenter and her panelist started calling me names. And that before God never happened. I felt caged in as a human being. Am I not locked-in by my profession? We are not mad people because we are entertainers. “I have been begging because I want to save the image. And there is nothing more to say. Please, come back and take care of your children; somebody who used to look at their assignments when they come back from school; somebody who used to bathe them and get them ready for the next programme and work with the father, this is what we agreed. What is happening? “You said you are not happy, you are having pain in your chest; I asked what do you want? She said she wanted to see a doctor. Let us go to the Medical Centre at Yaba. Let us go overseas to check everybody in the family.

Let us go to Disney World to have fun to get back your grip in the marriage. “People just get involved because it is a stout relationship, everybody gets involved. And if you have a very bad woman, sorry about that, there is nothing I can do about it. If a man’s wife could leave her house and begin to do all sorts of damage to his image, is that right in African context? “And somebody will come and start saying Emeka Ike did this or not and he is called a bad man. Are there witnesses? Which neighbour will come and say yes? You don’t just wake up and say, constant abuses and then it goes viral, and a man begins to sponsor it; and every media house is reporting it as if it is big news, and that is a bad image battery.” Saturday Sun investigation reveals that, early in the year, Emeka had dragged a young man to Special Anti Robbery Squad (SARS) alleging assault. Emeka had alleged that the young man was having an affair with his wife and was also threatening to kill him. In the course of investigation, the young man was arrested. At the police station during interrogation, Emeka kept repeating that his major concern is the safety of two of his kids who were still in the custody of the wife. He said that he wanted all his children to grow in his house in Abuja under the care of his mother who lives with him. He alleged that his wife, Suzanne, decided to walk out of the marriage.

Ghanaian Actress Divorces Husband 4 Days After Wedding [See Why]

On their wedding day, last week Sunday

Ghanaian actress Rose Mensah, popularly known as Kyeiwaa, has divorced her husband Daniel Osei, less than four days after the glamorous event. The Kumasi-based Spare Parts dealer tied the knot with the famous Kumawood actress last weekend in Kumasi.

Twenty-four hours after the wedding, it emerged that Mr. Osei was a married man with kids.

Wife of Mr. Osei has also revealed that her husband claimed that his marriage to Kyeiwaa was just a movie and nothing more. It has also emerged that Osei rented a crowd for Sunday’s ceremony.

Kyeiwaa, however, has confirmed to Kasapa FM that she is done with Osei, and will never go back.

City Of Sex Where Men Have More Than Three Women

Most of the men in this city have two or three girlfriends!

There is one city on our planet that defies the universal dogma of monogamy, which tends to be the cornerstone of our modern society, with so many women living there that most men have two or three girlfriends.

Dongguan, in south China’s Guangdong province, is not only popular for producing electronics, including iPhones and iPads, but it is also known as the Chinese ‘capital of sex’.

Mirrior UK reports that the city came to attain its status due to a certain child policy which operated in China for many years, when the country had a massive gender imbalance with millions more women than men.

Then, local factories which run assembly plants had a bias for hiring men, as they find them unreliable. Instead, they have been offering jobs mainly to women.

This made more men taking odd jobs and casual work, thereby leaving them with plenty of time on their hands, which in turn makes room for more than one girlfriend.

Most men within this Chinese ‘sex-city’, admit they have two or three permanent girlfriends at the same time, and it is not a problem even between the women.

“It is a lot easier here to find a girlfriend than a job,” one man told a local TV.

The few men who do have jobs at the factories are in a better position as regards finding girlfriends, because they spend longer hours at work on the production lines with the women.

Everybody lies…7 steps to getting the truth out of someone

According to Dr. Phil McGraw of popular health talk show ‘Dr Phil’, everyone lies. He says that people lie an average of three times in the first 10 minutes that they’re trying to get to know each other.

A recent survey revealed that men lie six times a day and women lie 3 times a day. Some lies are small (“You haven’t aged one bit!” or “Sorry I’m late, but traffic was horrible!”), but others, like infidelity, can destroy a relationship.

The truth is if you’re close to someone who isn’t trustworthy or you’re the one who’s not being transparent, you can start making a change with Dr. Phil’s 7 strategies below:

1. Start by Being Honest with Yourself: The most destructive lies we tell are the ones we tell ourselves. When you lie to yourself, you’re really crippling your ability to interact with the world because how you present yourself to the world impacts how you are treated in return.

2. Negotiate for What You Want — Don’t Just Try to Take it With a Lie: For example, if you want a baby, going off the pill and tricking your spouse into getting you pregnant is not the way to go! Every lie has a cost. Instead of going about it the wrong way, try pushing for what you want in a mature, straightforward way.


3. You Teach People How to Treat You: You are complicit in someone else’s deception when you are willfully blind. Is it clear as day that your partner is cheating but you turn a cheek? If you’re in denial, then you are teaching someone he can get away with lying to you. Are you willing to settle for what you’re doing, or do you want to teach someone that you deserve their respect?


4. People Who Have Nothing to Hide, Hide Nothing: If something doesn’t feel right to you, it probably isn’t. And for every rat you see, there could be 50 you can’t. When someone gets caught lying, it’s likely there are more.


5. You Can’t Change What You Don’t Acknowledge: Be real with yourself and with your partner. Be honest with yourself about whether somebody is using you or misrepresenting things to you. Of course that will be painful and could leave you feeling betrayed, but you can’t move forward until you recognize what’s going on. That takes courage and strength; you may surprise yourself with both when you start to get real.


6. Be Forthcoming When You Start a Relationship; Ask for the Same in Return: If you’ve got a secret, it’s probably going to come out eventually. So if you think things in your relationship might get serious, you might as well be honest from the beginning. Likewise, if you have trust issues because you’ve been burnt before, you might say from the get-go: “Listen, I’ve been deceived before. So if I seem a little stand-offish or a little suspicious, let me tell you why. I want you to understand where I’m coming from because I’ve got nothing to hide. I hope you’ll do the same.


7. Give a Loved One the Chance to Earn Your Trust Back — if He/She Deserves it: It is possible for your friend or partner to change, but he’s got to earn your trust back one step at a time while you have your eyes wide open. Once he owns it, stops justifying it, and shows that he’s willing and capable of building a new history, you can start trusting again

My Boss Wants Me To Sleep With His Wife – What should I do?

I work in a private IT company , i joined the company like seven months ago. My boss is a bit advance and he is married to a much younger and fine lady from what i heard from other staff in the office, they have been married for more than 7 years but they don’t have a child, some people believe the boss is impotent that is why he never wanted to get married but due to pressure from friends and family he had to.

After about 3 months working with him i met the wife and since that day my boss has become too nice to me, now he is always sending me to his house to deliver one message or the other, something he could have just call his wife and tell her he will want me to go to his house and everytime I went there the wife is always trying to seduce me. On a particular day he ask me to go and download whatsapp for his wife he told me to take my time and not rush back to the office, sometimes he will tell me to wait for him in his house knowing fully well that he will not come to the house anytime soon, now its getting out of hand because what happened the yesterday was not funny.

I know what they are up to but i can’t do it and i also need the job. Am confused, Please I need your Advice. What should i do?

This Is Serious! 50 Year Old Woman Locks Up Boyfriend, Rapes Him Repeatedly

Not the real photo

This a case of 'you must do!..lol..So, A se'x crazed 50-year-old South African woman identified as Elsie, has been arrested for locking up her 45-year-old lover, Thamsanqa Mciya, and raping him repeatedly when he refused to give her the kind of sex she wanted, according to reports.

It was learnt that Mciya was becoming fed up with Elsie's possessiveness and huge sexual appetite and had threatened to walk out of the relationship before she took the step to show him no one messes up with her.

Mciya told the police that Elsie had turned his life into a nightmare by physically abusing him and forcing him to have sex whenever she wanted but she allegedly told the police she sees nothing wrong with locking him in a room and using him as a sex slave.

Mciya who was married for 23 years, left his wife and family to be with Elsie but is now regretting his actions and wants to go back to his wife.

“I left my family six years ago when I met Elsie. I have fallen in love, but now she has turned abusive and she beats me. I want to go back to my family, but my wife has moved on.”

According to the report, Elsie was at one time seen on the streets of Bloemfontein running after Mciya as he tried to escape from her. When she caught up to him, Elsie forced him to return home with her. When questioned, Elsie said:

“I'm not abusive, but I am very protective. We've been together for six years and it has been good. I love him and I will not lose him.”

Meet the Couple who is Still Eating Their Wedding Cake 60 YEARS After Marriage

A couple (photo above) who have been married for 60 solid years still have their wedding cake, which was made in Aug, 1955. Can you beat that?

According to UK Mirror: Ann and Ken Fredericks have been married for 60 years after tying the knot in New York in 1955, and admit that they still have some of the original cake left.

The dark fruit cake was made by Ann’s grandmother, especially for their marriage ceremony on August 19.


And now, each year, on their anniversary, Ann and Ken take out a little bit of the cake to enjoy alongside a bottle of Champagne.

The pair reckon the cake has never spoiled, and simply needs a drop of brandy every so often to keep it moist.

Ann, who lives with her husband in Satellite Beach, Florida, told Florida Today: “I have to say it’s dry, tastes a little dry but it tastes like cake.”

“Little bit of Brandy never hurt anybody.”

Mr Fredericks added: “Maybe that’s the reason we’ve been around so long.”

And according to the couple, there’s no secret to storing the cake either, it is simply put into a tin and placed in a kitchen cupboard

Amazing!!! Would you eat a 60year old cake???

Too Bad! 2 Year Old Boy Shots His Dad, Killing Him!

A young father was found shot to death by his 2 year old son in an apartment outside Birmingham, Alabama, United States, on August 18.

According to AL.com, Divine Vaniah Chambliss, 31, was watching his son while the boy’s mother was at work.

At about 3.00 p.m., the mum arrived at the apartment where she lives with her son and the couple’s daughter, who was at school.

She found Chambliss unresponsive. The little boy is quoted to have told his shocked mum, “I hurt my dad.” They found the man in bed with a single gunshot wound to the head and pronounced him dead.

The coroner’s office hasn’t yet issued an official ruling confirming that the toddler accidentally murdered his dad but according to a police statement, that appears to be what happened.

“Detectives have considered every possible scenario in an attempt to determine who shot the victim,” said the statement, which was posted on Facebook on August 19.

“There is still no indication that an intruder or any third person was involved in this incident. Physical evidence has also helped us determine that the victim could not have shot himself,” continued the statement.

“All indications at this point still lead us to believe the child found the loaded handgun and accidentally shot his father.”

Chambliss carried a gun in a holster at all times, his family toldAL.com, because he worked as a security guard at his church. He always kept the safety on, they maintained.

When he lay down for a nap while watching his son, he apparently put the semiautomatic gun under a pillow, and they believe that the boy found it and began playing with it.

Photo Of The Day: As Seen At A Recent Bridal Shower Party In Lagos...Lol!

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